My note to US!๐Ÿฅฐ The Chocolate Girls!

Why does she feel like the ugliest little gurl in her class, in her school? Why does the litle chocolate gurl feel less than? Why does she feel like she doesn’t matter? Why does she feel transparent? Why is she so quiet, so shy!? Let me tell you why; Because she doesn’t feel pretty and she doesn’t feel loved because of the venom that is spoken to her about her beautiful milk chocolate Brown skin!

Where it all began? Pam Then!

I can think back to elementary school being looked at differently and being kind of stand offish! I can’t really go too deep into those school years because honestly alot of it is a Blank Slate . . . I do remember the shy, timid, little chocolate girl in this Kindergarten school picture . . . Ain’t she cute!?

Oh beautiful baby girl, oh beautiful chocolate girl some day you will learn to love you, some day you will learn to love that chocolate skin that you grew to hate because so many thought there was something wrong with you, so you started to believe it too #MeToo. Beautiful Chocolate Girl, Some Day you will learn to Love, Cherish, and Embrace ALL OF YOU!!!

Gurl Affirm Yourself

I’m writing to me, and I’m writing to you! To every little chocolate girl that has been bullied or still gets bullied for her chocolate skin! To every milk chocolate woman that still at times feels unlovable and ugly because of the hurt and pain of growing up dark skinned. I Understand! I Am Her ~ She is Me ~ You are Her ~ We Are She! I know the hurt, I felt the pain, and at times remember those hurtful days! The great thing is we can move past it!

YES, we are beautiful in every Shade, why don’t we know that, why don’t we act like we know that we’re all beautiful and made in HIS image!? Why does the color of my skin dictate how you look at me or how you treat me!?

Hate turned to Madd Love

The one thing that I grew to hate over the years, I’ve now grown to LOVE! My Milk Chocolate Brown Skin! Oh how I LOVE this Chocolate Queen ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ‘‘ It use to be the thing I hated about me, now it is one of my greatest assets, and I’ll also insert one of the things that my Mr. Wonderful LOVES about this chic …LOL ๐Ÿ˜‚

Check out these lyrics https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=zzN0t7WaOFo&feature=share and share this blog with all the Milk Chocolate sistas in your Life๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿพ

. . . Pam Now! #TheGrowUpIsReal

This beautiful chocolate sista learned to love herself from scratch with the help of her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and through the power of speaking positive Affirmations over herself daily. Words have Power, but your BELIEF in the words is where the true Power dwells!!! What do You Believe about YOU!? What do You say to YOU!?

Affirmations Matter

If you know anything about Pam Dorsey Enterprises, LLC you know you will get Inspired Motivated and Empowered to Live Your Best LIFE NOW!!! Alot of that is done through Daily Affirmations. They are extremely powerful. AFFIRMATIONS help me to “flip it” Flip from low self-esteem to being Confidently Me! Be sure to subscribe to the Pam Dorsey Newsletter to stay in the know of what’s going on in the world of the L.I.F.E. Pursuers! Subscribe Here!

I was so thrilled to discover the beautiful and brilliant Kheris Rogers @KherisPoppin . . . She turned her pain of being bullied over her dark skin at an early age into a movement, into a thriving business! She makes my soul happy!!! ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿพ She has an entire tee line that was birthed out of her passion for loving the skin she’s in and helping alot more beautiful young ladies do the same! “Flexin’ in My Complexion” is what her tees say! Sooooo amazing right!? She is beautiful. . . She is brilliant . . . She is brown skin๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’ž I Love you Kheris!!!

My Idol ~ My Shero!!!

Dear Chocolate Sista . . . It will get better! GROW THROUGH IT!!!There is a rainbow after the storm!